Determination Is The Backbone To Success

Determination Is The Backbone To Success.
Determination means the act of determining or the quality of mind which reaches a definite conclusion.
Determination can be a decision or the focus you need to get something done. It's the quality of continuing to try to do something when it is difficult. It's the burning desire to achieve a particular dream or to reach a target. For you to reach your destination in life or achieve your dream academically you need determination. It's not always easy because the road is always rough and tough but if you have a positive mind and a strong desire you will surely get there. This life is full of up and down, obstacles and challenges. For you to walk through the road of success you need a strong determination. There are many times you will think to go back or to forget your dream but let me tell you if you have a positive mind all things are possible. For you to achieve your dreams first of all put it in writing, I mean have a special notepad and a pen and write them down, confess it daily by your mouth and walk in it, it will surely come to pass as you are saying it, it will instilled into your brain and your mind. Determination gives strength to pursue and overtake it's the matter of the heart.
•The Prerequisites For Success
1.Focus: you have fixed your mind in order to reach your target, your heart must be free from distraction for you not to beat around the bush. Focus will enable you to have a goal to achieve and to fulfill it in a set time.
2.Priority: set your priorities right each day, you need to know what you have on your daily calendar I mean personally write them and follow them faithfully and you will surely meet up as a student pursuing a career of your dream, you must have an agenda for yourself and be free from internal and external pressure.
3.Perseverance: To meet up a target you need to endure and be patient, it's not a whole day job or magic it's a gradual process, one step at a time, for you to reach your goal, take it step by step.
Courage: You need to be bold to confront challenges. It will surely come to a dream that will be a lasting one that will pass a test of time, so be bold and courageous to face it. Fear will evolve but don't be fearful just address the issue and you will overcome it.
4.Positive Mind: Having a positive mind is very important to achieve your dreams in any area of life. You need to be positive, you need to refuse negative thoughts in your mind or else it will stand as an obstacle for you to move. You must confess positive things everyday with your mouth "I can""I will"etc and you are saying all these you are gaining victory.
•Obstacles To achieve A Success
1.Distraction: if your mind is filled with many things you won't be able to focus on what you want to achieve, free your mind from junks and you will surely get there.
Impatience: majority we want to climb a ladder at a time and it's not possible except the success you want will be temporary or irrelevant to you at the end of the day. For you to have lasting success you need to be patient enough because life is a process on its own. Be patient
2.Fear: This is the most part. The majority of us do not reach our goal, we are so fearful, fear is nothing, it comes in way to achieve you need to wave it aside. If we fail in a particular thing that doesn't mean you are a failure , just continue trying and you will surely get there.
3.Pride: If you are full of yourself you won't be able to learn new things, relate with people of your passion, to guide and mentor you. No one is an island of knowledge, we learn from each other. Life is a continuous way to learn everyday, you learn unlearn and relearn. What I mean is that you remove the ones that are not helpful for you and you accept the one that is most important to you. You don't have to stick to one thing for the rest of your life to learn from others.
4.Negative Mind: This is where battles lie and you have to win. There are many times our past experiences, background have wrecked our life to be stagnant and to be as if we are nothing, we must be free from such a mindset, our mind must be rearranged if we are to be able to achieve something worthwhile in life. Stop saying"i can't do it, I won't be able to, you have the ability inside.of you to reach your target and goal in life , you have the capacity within you just stretch yourself to get there. Don't be lazy, because laziness kills ability in a man. You are extraordinary, you are something in your area of academic, you are special, believe in yourself, whenever you reject yourself you have already been rejected.
5.Inferiority Complex: you have to have a strong belief that you can do it, inferiority mind.kills man potential, ability and capacity. It makes man useless and unproductive you are great, you are rare, we are all equal even before God
Go And Achieve.
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THE IMPACT OF COVID-19 ON THE (INNER BEAUTY) POTENTIAL OF CHILDREN.

Childhood is the time for children to be in school and at play, to grow strong and confident with love and encouragement of their family and an extended community of caring adults. It's a precious time in which children should live free from fear, safe from violence and protected from abuse and exploitation. A child is an entity of a family, institution, society, religion and nation at large. While potential simply means having latent qualities or abilities that may be developed and lead to future success or usefulness. The potential of a child can't be underestimated because each child carries a special gift and talent for the growth and development of a country. If it's not properly nurtured, train and groom they turn our to become a nonentity to the society.
Different kinds of evil the country (Nigeria) is experiencing today is because the parents, guardians and the government lack their responsibility to cater for these children and they are leaders of tomorrow. Each child is embedded with a treasure and has a dream to fulfill in life , they are God given heritage.
Especially in this critical time (Covid-19) when the children need the attention of the parents, guardians and the government. The Covid-19 had presents the greatest challenge on the well being of these children both economically, psychologically, mentally, emotionally, academically etc.
The Challenges Of Covid-19 On Children.
1. Hunger: The pandemic disease Covid-19 has enhances hunger because of the preventive measure by the government which is really affecting the parents and guardians financially to meet the needs of these children and which leads to malnutrition, and lack of food for the children.
2.Psychological And Mental Imbalance: Majority of these children has seriously affected because if a child need is not meant if causes reasoning faculty of a child especially educationally.
3.Emotional Instability: During this pandemic disease Covid-19, it has increased emotional Instability especially among parents which usually lead to anger, anxiety and negative speech which can later affect the child behaviourally and intellectually by exhibiting fear, inferiority complex, depression etc.
4. Poverty:  The physical distancing and lockdown measure needed to save lives and suppress the transmission of the virus have resulted in a significant reduction of economic activities across all major economics  and the resultant of global recession and had led to many  families at  household level, struggling families will increasingly see the bread winner lose their jobs or to be forced to sell productive assets in order to survive with long running consequences of child poverty.
5.Child Abuse: The greatest negative impact of this pandemic disease is that it has make many children vulnerable. When a child is not well protected by a parent, the child will be exposed to varieties of evil eg  raping, criminal act, prostitution, premature death and early pregnancy. Some of them are sent by their parents to hawk petty items like sachet water, buns, and groundnut and in the process some "wolves" entice them with little gifts and have sex  with them even parents either look the other way or actively encourage their children to "source" for income to meet the family need through "runs" and there atimes poverty and ignorance is the root cause of these evil.
Solution For Children During Covid-19
1.Relationship: The parents should try their possible best to relate and get closer with their children during this pandemic period, to feel loved and accepted. It's during this time, the parents can easily discover the inner beauty (potential) of their children by asking questions educationally and build them morally. It will also help them to know their area of strength and weakness.
2. Communication: The parents/guardians should spend time for the children in interacting in order to know their mind, what bothers them and help them to solve their problems.
3. Continuous Learning: The children should be taught in the area of interest and what they love to do. The parents should engage,educate and empower them to avoid brain- drained after Covid-19.
4. Nutrition: Good feeding enhances cognitive faculty, though this pandemic is serious economically to feed, but the parents try to feed the children well with good and nutritious food.
5. Positive Word/ Optimism : The should always speak positively and word of encouragement to these children, even if there is little at home they will be able to understand the situation rather than negative speech through anger.
6. Safety: For most children, home represents a source of security and safety but for the minority, the opposite is tragically the case, like the refugees, homeless, street children, slum dwellers etc they are not secured especially during this pandemic disease they are easily exposed to it and domestic violence. A home should be a place a child is secured, accommodated and loved.